Last night's bible highlights was really eyebrow raising! The brother pointed out at lenght about how David had wept when his son Absalom was killed. But that because Absalom was killed while opposing Jehovah that means that David was wrong and weak to greive for him.
It was applied to today by saying that if our children are DF'd when they die then we should not grieve for them either!
Cue nodding heads all round!