AlwaysBusy

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  newbie to site looking for fellow DF's and DA's (or anyone else who has good conversation to offer)

  by eyefell4it2 in

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  2. beliefs

  i am new to the site.

  i started perusing it this weekend and wish i had found it 10 years ago when i was on my way out.

  anyways, long story short, was df'd for you guessed it...fornication or "loose conduct" even though i had been a pioneer with an elder father, grandfather and uncle and no previous issues.

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  AlwaysBusy

  Hi!

  I've been a member here for 2 months, but had known about it for about 6 months. I like that I can find information here before most others have it...especially since I am df'd also.

  THis site has helped, just reading some of the comments, and the SilentLambs site helped me. I thought my kids were the only ones molested by an elder, but because of this site and SilentLambs...I now know that isn't true. Sometimes I feel like I am just hanging on by a thread, but then I read a comment that reminds me that I am not the only one who feels this way, and it helps.

  Anyway, Take Care,

  AB
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  Sing with me.......

  by AlwaysBusy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  winter (sung to the tune of roger miller's "england swings", 1st stanza).

  by always busy.

  i hate winter, yes i do,.

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  Winter (Sung to the tune of Roger Miller's "England Swings", 1st stanza)
  by Always Busy

  I hate Winter, yes I do,
  City workers on snowplows two by two. ... Black ice, flue shots, here we go again,
  Snotty, red noses of the little children.

  I hate Winter, positively I do,
  Shovels and heart attacks two by two.
  Turn up the heat, go back to bed,
  All I want to do is cover up my head.

  I hate winter, I confess,
  Slush and dirty snow, what a mess!
  If I die in winter, I'll be really mad,
  Thinkin' 'bout the next summer I could've had.
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  Disfellowshipping painting

  by Rambo Morris III in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  made by kirsi-maria aho.

  name of the painting is "committee".

  here is the link if picture doesn't appear.

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  AlwaysBusy

  Accurate representation...sad.
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  ALERT: NEW LAWSUIT settlement - $13 MILLION

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/135m-awarded-to-bible-teacher-gonzalo-campos-alleged-abuse-victim-jose-lopez-281031832.html.

  (published thursday, oct 30, 2014).

  thursday, oct 30, 2014 updated at 11:58 pm pdt.

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  AlwaysBusy

  The elder that molested my son and drugged and raped his buddy was removed as an elder. When asked what else happened to the molester, another elder replied, (and I quote) "Isn't that enough?!"

  Anyway, it all makes me sick.

  Take Care,

  AB
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  Prince on Saturday Night Live

  by designs in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  did you catch it.. http://theconcourse.deadspin.com/watch-princes-electric-prformance-from-tonights-saturd-1653735759.

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  It was probably a wig. He is getting old, maybe that's why the songs are losing their punch. I'm glad he can still get up their and play, though...looks like fun.

  I doubt if the elders will say anything to him. Now, if I got up there....lol....there would be a JC set up before I got off the stage.

  Anyway, Take Care,

  AB
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  If you have been inactive for over a year can you get disfellowshipped?

  by cognac in

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  2. friends

  i've read conflicting things so was hoping to get this clarified.. .

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  I think most elders enjoy df'ing. So my answer is, yes, one can be df'd for just about anything.
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  Human kindness

  by stillin in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i hold kindness in high regard; it separates us from the drudgery of life and elevates those who practice it as well as those who receive it.

  my family has been going through a big crisis for several weeks now and i've noticed a few things.

  several of the elders have expressed their concern for us, shared a scripture and then back out to field service or whatever.

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  I am sorry that your family is going through hard times...I really am so sorry. You know, often we hear '"adversity makes one stronger", or "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger". I hate those cliches and I hate trouble. I hate for people to have to go through difficulties. We weren't designed to endure tough times. But, we have to...it happens to all of us. Take care of yourself and your family, love each other and know that even adversity doesn't last forever, and things will work out. Accept all the love and concern you are shown, and know that you and yours will be alright.

  Anyway, Take Care,

  AB
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  Consider the "outcome" when elders apply the two-witness "rule"

  by AndersonsInfo in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  jehovahs witnesses two-witness rule is applied by elders when a witness member accuses another member of a sin, even if that sin is a criminal act.

  if there arent two witnesses to the accusation, it goes nowhere, including not being reported to the authorities.

  and in the case of an allegation of child abuse, the accused is free to molest again.. watchtower attorney, jim mccabe, recently stated this about jehovahs witnesses two-witness rule which he described as a bible-based belief :.

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  talesin ~ "Indeed, if YOUR child is raped, and there are not two witnesses, YOU can be disfellowshipped for warning other parents and thereby slandering the Brother or Sister who offended them, as far as Jehovah's Organization is concerned."

  This is exactly what happened to me.

  AB
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  new assembly experience... what do you reckon to this one?

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  ok so aparently there was this young girl who wanted to study with the jw's because she loved the bible so much.

  she asked her fathers permission but he refused, after much nagging though he said she could have a study if she was prepared to have one of her fingers chopped off.

  he thought the is would stop her but she was willing so he got a knife and cut off one of her fingers... a little while later she wanted to attend the meetings and he said no and again when nagged said she could attend meetings if she had another finger chopped off so she agreed and he chopped off a second finger.

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  I've heard so many of these stories, and that's what they are...stories. I really hate the the story in which the brother was on a boat with his son and a 'wordly' friend. Both boys fall overboard in a storm and the brother could only save one boy so he saved the friend because he knew his son would be resurrected. Years later the boy is grown and the two men are at a KH, the older one giving the talk and relating this tale. He points to a younger man in the audience and says this is the boy, who is now a CO. Everyone cries and cheers.

  IMHO these stories are terrible and whomever relates them, just to get an emotional response, should be ashamed of themselves. Just tell the truth, is that so hard to do. The truth is always more interesting than fiction.

  Anyway, Take Care

  AB
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  Would you convert to a religion for love?

  by new hope and happiness in

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  2. friends

  i am sure people convery to a religion to find peace and spiritual awakening.

  i also bet many convert simply for love.

  would you to assist " true love" if it required converting to a particular faith?.

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  AlwaysBusy

  For myself...No Way! I wouldn't convert for the love of the hottest, richest man on earth. NO WAY! I know many others who have.