my jw friend has a son who is living with a very nice young woman, who has two little girls 3 and 5. my friend has no problem with this, because she is like all of us, but is playing the jw game to keep her family.
(large extended one) she has become very close to the young woman and her children.
the girlfriend wants to celebrate christmas.
She's funny, lol!
My father doesnt mind it, he allows them to decorate and have a tree up and he turns on the lights and stuff himself, and tells them to turn it on he just doesnt buy presents and he waits in his room until they are done opening their presents, and when they are done he comes out and plays with their toys...lol!
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if you could have anyone thing for christmas, what would it be.
it can be, an actual object, or sumthing you'd really like to happen.
but, what do you really want for christmas?
Like a little red corvette? That's all I want but I have a feeling it's going to take a few more years before I get one.
good luck with that stacy Imma get a Mustang teehee!!! Gonna take me a little longer than a few years for me to get it though
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the hat in the cat
do not eat that i say!.
do not eat my hat that way!.
haha, thats cute make more
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i was never baptised because i was to young, i was in it until i was 5 years old.
but it ruined my life and still is because my dad, nanny, grandfather, my step nanny, my aunt and uncle...all on my dads side of the family are still in it, so i get lectured alot about things that have to do with the "truth" or i hear him talking about and all i think it, "what a bunch of garbage.
he never really yells at me, i don't think he can because he barely ever see's me, i try to avoid going there as much as possible.
Although you state that you weren't the direct victim of physical violence, your internal system of feelings and beliefs get shattered as you witness such events. The trauma involved should not be minimized.
That's true. I guess even though people never get hit by their parents but witness it will still grow up to hit and abuse their children, but me, im gonna prevent that as much as humanly possible.
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great movie...and not exactly what you expect...one of my fave scenes is where he's getting naughty w/this girl...she kept saying "f me santa" over and over again...*lol* definitely not a movie to take the kids to, plent of naught words and scenes, but real good fun in any case.
sincerely,.
district overbeer
I'm gonna go see it with some friends. I don't think thats a movie I wanna see with my mom. Anyways yeah I saw the previews and I wanted to see it since last month or two ago
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if you could have anyone thing for christmas, what would it be.
it can be, an actual object, or sumthing you'd really like to happen.
but, what do you really want for christmas?
I want my two front teeth, but uhh I already have them, so Im just gonna go with all the stuff I already have lol...
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i was never baptised because i was to young, i was in it until i was 5 years old.
but it ruined my life and still is because my dad, nanny, grandfather, my step nanny, my aunt and uncle...all on my dads side of the family are still in it, so i get lectured alot about things that have to do with the "truth" or i hear him talking about and all i think it, "what a bunch of garbage.
he never really yells at me, i don't think he can because he barely ever see's me, i try to avoid going there as much as possible.
Guys treat their wives the same way they treat their moms. So if any guy you date treats him mom like garbage, run away fast.
I did with one guy, he kept telling me how he yelled at his mom, and how he hit her and stuff and I was like yeah thats make you look totally cool, gee I wish you "WEREN'T" mine lol... So I said bye! Thanx Stacy
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i was never baptised because i was to young, i was in it until i was 5 years old.
but it ruined my life and still is because my dad, nanny, grandfather, my step nanny, my aunt and uncle...all on my dads side of the family are still in it, so i get lectured alot about things that have to do with the "truth" or i hear him talking about and all i think it, "what a bunch of garbage.
he never really yells at me, i don't think he can because he barely ever see's me, i try to avoid going there as much as possible.
Yeah, My Grand dad wasnt the nicest to him and the rest of his kids, abused the physically and emotionally, the only one he let get close to him was one of my aunts. All the other kids he would yell hit and scream his head off at them, he eve put bars on my uncles bedroom window and handcuffed him to the bed and locked his door to make sure he wouldnt sneak out. True, my uncle shouldnt have snuck out but my grand dad took it too a big extreme...
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what's your favorite junk food???
some time back i decided it was time to get healthy, and i eliminated most junk foods from my diet.
no more chips, dip, pop, chocolate, etc!.
nachos and sour cream and chocolate)of course
True... LoL!
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i was never baptised because i was to young, i was in it until i was 5 years old.
but it ruined my life and still is because my dad, nanny, grandfather, my step nanny, my aunt and uncle...all on my dads side of the family are still in it, so i get lectured alot about things that have to do with the "truth" or i hear him talking about and all i think it, "what a bunch of garbage.
he never really yells at me, i don't think he can because he barely ever see's me, i try to avoid going there as much as possible.
Ok Here I am adding more to "My Story"
A couple weeks ago my dads dog (Jade, Full bread rotweiler) had Full bread rotweiler puppies. Of course my dad being the dog lover he is already has two dogs and is going to keep one of the puppies(The biggest male). You're all probably wondering what this has to do with "My story"...well my dad hasn't been paying child support for many years now,and according to my mom he owes me thousands of dollars. and finally my point is that he keeps 2 dogs plus he might be keeping the puppy, he spends his money on dog food and all the needs that the dog *needs*. And wastes all of his money on them, but yet owes me alot of cash.You see it's only money and doesnt mean alot to me if he pays it or not, but the fact is he obviously doesn't care for my needs and his 4 other kids.
All the neglecting and abuse he put towards me and Chennelle is unbelievable. With me it was mentally, Always wondering why he never came to see me. It always left a few questions. Does he even love me? Does he even care or does he think I am a mistake? I'm not totally sure. I just gave up trying to figure out those answers to the questions that I ask myself. and to my sister he physically abused her. But he no longers hits the kids any more, just yells and goes crazy all the time like he does wanna hit them but wont.
My mom, who was the only one who only really actually took care of me(besides my nanny and grampy) had alot of stress on her because of his lies and not paying the child support. She has now given up on him and the rest of the JW in his family. It bothered her at first but she has grown to realize that true friends wouldn't do that, and when they were growing up they weren't the nicest people to her especially my father. He would always hit her(playing around to bug her) and she would tell him to stop because he would keep hitting her in the same spot over and over again and it slowly started hurting and she would hit him to make him stop but he would get even more mad at her and freak ouy on her.
The only thing that my dad really actually bought for me was a rabbit, it was old and its dying date was due sooner than he knew... anyways he bought me this rabbit wihtout confirming with my mom. brought it over and gave it to me in a cage, but he didnt get any food. I know buying me that rabbit was in his best intrests but it just laid more stress on my moms shoulders. Well the rabbit died a week later and i thought it was asleep but mom told me that it was dead and i cried more than i cried when we had to get rid of one of my cats because my dad bought me that rabbit, for me and me only! It was more special to me than anything I had gotten.
Things like being in the Religion stick with you more than you know, you have all these memories of these little things and you don't get over them as easily as you would like.
But I'm off to school I will be back afterwards.
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