Mulan,
I am truly sorry that you are being hurt.
just hope that you will find your inner peace and strenght to stay head above some really insignificant people in your life.From your posts I get an impression that you are nice and truly kind person,devoted to your family and friends and that is all that matters.And from all these posts with support you can draw comfort that there are much more of us who think highly of you and respect you.
stay strong and take care.
Invictus