Posts by Sassy

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Have You Divorced And/Or Remarried- What Did You Learn From It ?

by flipper in

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in seeing a lot of posters threads , i feel i see many people who have been divorced at one time , and either have remarried or have stayed single .

i totally understand those who choose to stay single, as i was single for 6 years before i got married again !

as experts say, next to death it's one of the hardest experiences you'll go through !

Sassy

I learned to not put men first in my life.. They can come and go in our lives, but friends are around for the long haul..

Sad.. to think that way isn't it?

I've been married twice.. engaged twice more... and now in a 4 yr (I thought it was five!.. miscounted) relationship.. We were broke apart recently for two months... I'll admit I like being in a relationship.. however, I have also learned I am happy alone as well...

The one thing is I have been skittish to remarry after two failed marriages.. thus why I have been with this guy for 4 yrs and not accepted as of yet, a marriage proposal.. but we do live together

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Okay guys, lets get back to what this board is all about -- here's MY story

by oppgirl63 in

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after trevorgate, i feel compelled to contribute more to the board.. you said this board has been a little crazy latelyso heres my story.

i tried not to be too long and ramble too much.. forgive my spelling or punctuation in advance.. .

lets begin in 1984i was going to college and met my now jw roommate.

Sassy

well that is quite a soap opera..

somehow my life feels much simpler now

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I spoke to my JW mother...

by coolhandluke in

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we had a disagreement a few months ago because she asked me to pay for her to come to see my brother graduate from his masters program.

whats the big deal with that?

she said that her conscience would allow her to come and give him support even though i was there.

Sassy

I'm glad you could have an ok conversation with her.. and feel better about talking to her about how you left.

I always get the feeling with our parents that they change their minds back and forth about what they can do with us.. Mine is talking to me now because she thinks its ok with the elders because she is having health issues.. (and they wont' be going away in this system).. I wait for the ball to drop when she says she finds out she shouldn't be..

but in the meantime I'm glad I have a little time to talk with her.. even if it is mostly in emails.

I hope you find an ok ground with your mom. I'm sure you both would like it.

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Its my JWD Birthday!

by Sassy in

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i went into my profile and there it was.

.

4 yrs since i joined!!.

Sassy

I went into my profile and there it was

4 yrs since I joined!!

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How do you know...

by coolhandluke in

if your so is cheating on you?

well, she's not my so anymore.

she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.

Sassy

then it sounds like things are for the best.. even if they are painful.. there is a reason for things

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How do you know...

by coolhandluke in

if your so is cheating on you?

well, she's not my so anymore.

she decided a few days ago that she didn't have it in her to continue the relationship.

Sassy

i don't know if she's repulsed by me. i don't know if im unattractive to her all of a sudden. maybe i fart in my sleep or snore really loudly. i dont know. it doesnt matter.

I know when I am wanting to make a break from a guy.. suddenly everything he does is amplified.. what might never have bothered me when I was happy with him.. suddenly irritates the hell out of me.. I think its a instinctive wall we put up to make us strong and determined to carry out the end...

I'm sorry it didn't work for you both. I know you really cared about her.

We can change those things that are in our control.. those that we cannot.. well.. then we have to accept and move on..

I don't know.. I broke up with my guy beginning of August.. and I gave him 30 days to move out.. I had NO intention of us getting back together.. then his 30 days were up and he was about to lose his job.. he had no where to go.. so I gave him more time.. and more time has given me time to realize that maybe I can forgive him and take him back, which today is where I am leaning... if you had asked me in August if we were over for good, I would have put money on it.. now he on the other hand was determined that somehow we would work it out.. in the end it looks like he was the one who was right...

so.. if its over. is it? probably.. BUT..

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Hello to all of my friends, it's been awhile....

by LyinEyes in

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hey everyone!!!

it has been awhile since i have posted here at jwd.

life has been an adjustment these last two years.

Sassy

Hey Dede, I'm sorry to hear about your sister.. I hadn't heard and I understand why you have been withdrawn from us..

although we miss you a great deal.. and have much love and HUGSSS for ya..

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My nana passed away tonight.

by Es in

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i receieved an sms of my mum saying nan was slipping away i literally called as soon as i got the msg, and she had already passed away.

things were looking up for a bit, we were managing to get some water and food into her and she had accepted to have a tube put in her, they tried last night but it was unsuccessful.. when i saw her on saturday it was the most alert she was, sunday she had very laboured breathing and tonight when my mum go into the hosp, my nan was no responsive, it was like she just waited for my mum to come in and then she passed away.. im in shock, even tho i knew it was coming it was looking hopeful for a bit there.. thanks for your support.

es.

Sassy

I'm sorry ES

((((HUG))))

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MY DAD MIGHT DIE DUE TO THE 'NO BLOOD' DOCTRINE

by Mary in

i don't have much time to post as i'm headed back to the hospital, but my father collapsed this morning and had to be rushed to the hospital.

in a nutshell: he needs a blood transfusion as his hemoglobin is dropping (bleeding internally), but thanks to this fucking cult, that's not an option...........he'll accept the fractions but those bastards from the blood liaison committee have already shown up to ensure he doesn't cave............... for those of you who still believe, i'm asking you to say a prayer for my dad........and if anyone from crooklyn is reading this: you better hope my father doesn't die due to your fucked up rules, .

Sassy

sorry about your dad, my prayers will be with you

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Brother Prince

by The-Borg in

i went to see prince in concert at the o2 in london last week.

i didn't really want to go, he's not my thing but my wife wanted to see him so i went along for the ride.

he is actually an extremely talented guitarist and pianist and he can sing too.

Sassy

reminds me of when JT talked about the preferencial seating...

this is a clip where he mentions it in his profile:

started working in the Chairman's office at 30 I was one of the youngest guys up in the "SKYBOX" While all the friends sat on hard seats in Richmond and the Capital Center in MD for the convention my wife and I was up in the Skyboxes with AC chilling out While other friends could not get a cool drink of water at their seats We had a MS who would run down to the food stands and bring us up our food and drink, which we enjoyed thruout the ENTIRE program My wife never stood in line to use the bathroom we had one in our skybox

I've got friends who love Prince. A good friend of mine I work with, saw him in Vegas and loved the concert.