I'd give blood to a family member, and accept from a family member, but not from a stranger.
Not sure about the USA but that attitude would not be tolerated in the UK. If you need a blood transfusion be grateful that some charitable stranger has gone through the trouble of donating for you.
Nic'
Sorry if it hurts, but MY interest is in protecting MY body or the body of family, the emotions of strangers comes third or fourth down that list. MY blood "is not good enough" for the blood network, so what? Does that hurt my feelings? No, becauseI don't care what they think. I don't want or need 'kudos' for doing a good thing. Personally, I've though about being a blood marrow donor, but wonder if I'd face the same issues with being gay and all that crap. I don't use drugs or Rx, so for the most part I KNOW my blood is clean.
As for my "attitude" and not being "tolerated", WTF? Its MY body , I can put in it --or NOT--whatsoever I choose, and if someone else gets huffy over that, then they have emotional immaturity issues and need to realise that what I do to me is not about them.