I know...it is hard to believe how much effort these people will put to "help" (there definition of help) strangers but not their own family. It is incredible and sad.
Welcome to this site. It is a great place to vent. We all understand how you feel. I used to think it was me until I started reading other posts. It's not you. By reading other posts you will come to find out what this "loving organization" does to innocent people.
You are not alone, we are all here for you.