Posts by LuckyNun

C describes me the best, even though it's hard for me to say I was really ever a true believer. if the rules of common-law marriage apply elsewhere, though, then yes I was a JW. there were quite a few times I had to identify myself as a JW when talking to other people, especially when I was in school.

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I'VE BEEN OUTED------UPDATE!

by integ in

i confronted my bro.

in law on why the co's assistant would accuse me of being on the "bad" internet web sites.

he has admitted telling the co guy because he wants to help me.

LuckyNun

good luck, man!

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Are The Holidays Bothering You At All?

by minimus in

jw
friends

this is the first time i say, "merry christmas" back to someone.

LuckyNun

I've been out since I was 17. and I really do try to make the holidays nice for my boys, but it's really hard to be all gung-ho about it when it's just us three. there's a girl I work with who was DFed ten years ago, when she was eighteen, and I might go over to her house for Christmas. after I made that post today, I went back to work and talked with her about this very subject. she talked with her husband and we'll finalize details tomorrow. we can be pagans together! and I won't be as lonely this year.

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Are The Holidays Bothering You At All?

by minimus in

jw
friends

this is the first time i say, "merry christmas" back to someone.

LuckyNun

hahahaha! I <3 Clive Barker.

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Are The Holidays Bothering You At All?

by minimus in

jw
friends

this is the first time i say, "merry christmas" back to someone.

LuckyNun

thanks, Sunny

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Are The Holidays Bothering You At All?

by minimus in

jw
friends

this is the first time i say, "merry christmas" back to someone.

LuckyNun

the thing that bothers me most about the holidays is the unbearable loneliness. everyone else is running off to visit their family, and I have no one but my two boys, because everyone else in my family is a JW, or in California, or dead. my boyfriend's parents don't like the fact that I have children, they don't want to be "instant" grandparents, so I'm not invited to holiday functions yet. I really fucking hate Thanksgiving and Christmas. I try to be happy for the boys' sake so I don't ruin Christmas for them, but inside I just want to curl up into a ball and and cry myself to sleep til New Year's Day.

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Get on the 2004 Birthday Calendar

by nicolaou in

jw
friends

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this is the current 2003 birthday calendar, just leave your details here if you'd like to be included in next years.

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LuckyNun

my birthday is December 14.

email: [email protected]

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Have you ever been dobbed in, and for what??????????

by BLISSISIGNORANCE in

today was a good day.

saturday, no witnessing, no meeting prep, no skirt and no dubs, no rush to do anything in particular, went to the mall to get some things, bumped into my brother (non dub) and his partner and my 3yo neice, had coffee with them and hubby, chatted, came home, kelpie dropped by to visit, went grocery shopping with my neighbour, ......................just to mention a few things.

doing what i wanted to do!.

LuckyNun

I tattled on a girl (see my first post) because it made me mad that she could be so condemning about other people and yet be getting away with all the stuff she was doing. I can't stand two-faced people. not people who are trying to 'do the fade', but people who condemn and act holier-than-thou but still try to get away with dating non-believers and whatnot. I'm not sorry I told on her. perhaps if she hadn't been so haughty and reminded me of the tattletalers I grew up with, I would've felt sorry for her and helped her along. I was told on all the time when I was a kid. I remember when people would call my mother and inform her who I walked to school with (meaning who I was walking ahead of or behind, as I was a loner at school because everyone teased me), who I stood by at the bus stop, and stupid stuff like that. I remember when my mother got a call that I was seen walking with two boys downtown not thirty minutes before, and they swore it was me, because the girl had very long strawberry-blonde hair and glasses. only I had cut my hair to shoulder-length the day before AND had been home babysitting my niece. or when a girl at school played a prank on me and sprayed me with perfume (Electric Youth by Debbie Gibson NAUSEATING stuff) and I was grilled for two hours that night by elders because my mom was convinced I had smoked cigarettes and sprayed perfume on myself to cover up the smell. when I complained about being falsely accused all the time, I was told that these people were well-meaning and had my future in mind, and they were Jehovah's way of bringing things to light. NO, THEY WERE A BUNCH OF ROTTEN GOSSIPS WITH NOTHING BETTER TO DO.