I recently participated in a 5K drive for Ronald McDonald house charities that help children and their families with cancer. Providing a place to stay near hospitals while children are in the hospital and camps that let kids be kids.
The only group that didn't contribute were my witness family and so called friends.
My son has leukemia and they all know him personally. Most of the people that contributed have not met him.
You are right most JW's have the humanity beaten out of them.