Flash - You're going to be very disappointed because it's just NOT going to happen.
Fulfilling prophecy aren't you?
All that time and attention thinking about them, and what they individually want and need and then all the the fun... That's joy and love in action.
We did that. Just because we didn't do things around the popular calendar dates didn't mean we didn't focus love, attention, good times AND gifts on them. I will admit though a calendar date is helpful. It was a challenge not to get caught up and distracted by the minutia of life. The months with 5 paydays in them is were where we planned gift giving since our budget was based on a 4 payday month. I'll admit, because we lived on a shoestring it didn't always go as we wanted too, but that was our plan.