Czar,
I feel your pain. Shunning accomplishes nothing. As a matter of fact it has the opposite effect of what the borg is trying to accomplish. It develops a hatred toward this institution. It's much like what the Nazi's did in the World War. Taking famlies away from each other, and ripping them apart.
I have 2 daughters that have been ripped from me by the Nazi borg. Do I get over it? Never. Do I deal with it? Somewhat. Do I cope? To the best of my ability.
So I understand that emotions can be suppresed to a point. But there are times when the pot boils over. And the only way to deal with it, is to vent, cry, scream and get angry. We're human.
Puternut