Since I am new here, but not new at all to theology, or the JWs, I will not provide a complete answer to your question- YET. In time (a week or two, I will put together, based on my observations, what needs to be said in this forum. In other words, I will elaborate on these points then
For now, I will say this-
There are many ways that one can attempt to come to know God. Here is the path I believe to yield the greatest revelation, knowledge of God, and the best shot at salvation:
-Belief that the Bible, and ONLY the Bible, is the inspitred word of God.
-Belief that the New Testament provides all neccesary "core" rules and principles.
-Belief that the Old Testament provides insight on God's thinking, as well as clarification for ideologies presented in the New Testament.
-Belief that a small percentage of what is written in the New Testament are "rules", that much of what is written is subject to individual interpretation.
-That personal faith in God, along with the praticing of the Fruits of the Spirit, prayer, Study, and challenging your beliefs with others is neccessary for continued growth and understanding.
I could go on, but I'll get to that, as promised within a few weeks, and post it here. For now (I've been here one day), I see few posts that seriously provide a basis for discussion of faith, salvation, and the nature of God and his purpose. I hope to provide such, within the context of what I've stated above.
God Bless.