Your top post is a good question:"If You Were Never A JW What Type of Life Would You Think You'd Have Now?"
As for "Would you have gone to college, gotten a great job, become a businessman", I did that as a JW, so the two are not mutually exclusive.
If I hadn't beeen a JW, I'm sure my life would have been different, but I'm not exactly sure how.
Sure, I would've had more time, probably would've had a Dad, would've been on the High School and College Football and wrestling teams, might've gone on to play professionally (sports), been a musician, artist, who knows?
But it would definitely have been different.