I just wanted to update this post...
My father-in-law is doing as well as can be expected. We had a little bit of a scare when we were up there earlier today. He told us he thought he was dying. Then he couldn't breath and we had to get a nurse. He is doing okay now but recovery will be very slow. He will be in the ICU for a while.
Very sad news about the little baby I mentioned earlier in this thread. We were told that she didn't make it.
Having spent most of the day at the hospital we saw many other terrible things and heard another story of a couple who's son-in-law was hit in the head with a metal hook at work and has had brain surgery but will not wake up. I felt so bad for them. They have been there every day for 3 weeks.
It really puts things into perspective seeing other people's pain.