I would say recruited as an adult is better. At least that way I would have had a normal childhood.
Desi
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If you had the choice ,when you became a jw,,,,,,,
by kls inwould you have been better off being born in to it or have been better off being recruited as an adult .
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what are the pros and cons of both.
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Do you welcome change?
by desib77 indo you welcome change or do you dread it?
do your fears of change ever hinder you for pursuing things that could better your life?.
the thought of big changes always scares me and i see myself avoiding things that would be a change even if it is possible that it will make my life better.
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desib77
I dread it. Its scary to start over.
I completely agree....I know I need to start over in one area of my life but I'm really scared to. I always think, "What if I can't handle this?". However, I think that changing the secular area of my life might be the key to bettering the personal area and pursuing the goals I have in it.
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Do you welcome change?
by desib77 indo you welcome change or do you dread it?
do your fears of change ever hinder you for pursuing things that could better your life?.
the thought of big changes always scares me and i see myself avoiding things that would be a change even if it is possible that it will make my life better.
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desib77
Do you welcome change or do you dread it? Do your fears of change ever hinder you for pursuing things that could better your life?
I think with me they do. The thought of big changes always scares me and I see myself avoiding things that would be a change even if it is possible that it will make my life better. I am always assuming the worst...what if it doesn't work out.....what if I can't deal with it............what if....what if...what if....
Does fear of change ever get the better of you?
Desi
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I can't believe what just happened !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Puternut ini have been calling my kids for some time now.
i am moving far away soon, and since i haven't had any contact with my daughters, i called them to let them know i was moving, and would like to say goodbye, before i flew away.
weeks went by, as ususal, and no response.
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desib77
I'm so happy for you!
Desi
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Whenever I think of death I think of sex
by logansrun inbe honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
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desib77
Its like i am in a JW marriage, since he dont like to try new things
((((Stephanie))))
hehe, you should trade him in on a newer model.....hehe, the lot is full of high quality, high performance, ummm...vehicles...
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Whenever I think of death I think of sex
by logansrun inbe honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
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desib77
hehe.....it's okay girl....believe me sex is on everyones mind hehe, just not in regards to death....least not for me.
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Whenever I think of death I think of sex
by logansrun inbe honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
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desib77
must be a guy thing.
Desi (<---- doesn't think of sex when scared of death...thinks of how not to die)
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So What The Hell Are You?
by shamus inaccording to dubdom, what are you?
i am a lame weakass lamb who goes on apostate websites who faded.
in the real world i am free from mind control.
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desib77
inactive, marked
just found out the other day that a talk was given about me when I was 19 and left....
Desi
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June 21; its my birthday!
by franklin J in.
today is my birthday; i am 48 years old..... i am old enough to realize that patience really is a virtue.... and i am still young enough to apprieciate and enjoy the attributes of youth ( that i took so much for granted when i was a youth).
i have now been a non jw for longer than i was a jw; i have no regrets.. frank
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desib77
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Desi
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The visit with my mother.........(long)
by desib77 inwell, as many of you know (i posted earlier about this) yesterday i had a get-together with my mom.
i was soooo ready to just leave when she started witnessing to me, but..........that didn't happen.
she changed her approach.
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desib77
I bet your dad has not told her how he really feels or she has ignored it and is living in denial.
I would have thought she should have gathered this when she and my dad divorced and he disassociated himself.
I guess one of my main problems is that when I stand up for myself I feel like I'm hurting her. I remember the pain I felt when my best friend left and I felt like I had lost her. At the time it hurt very bad. I wimp out because I don't want her to feel hurt.