And the feelings of the females who have been hurt by "him" don't matter?
We are not saying that.
We are saying it should never have become a forum issue, but it did when the accusations were made,. This was a case of a mutual relationship that didnt work out, not stalking or unwanted attention.
Everyone involved in this seems to have had feelings hurt, but it would not be fair for just one party to be publically lynched by naming them in that thread especically with stalking and predatory accusations, when the fault is on all sides.