Aikon
I hope it works out as you plan.
Whatever you do is fraught especially where teenagers are concerned.
The longer it takes the greater the risk of them marrying "in the truth" and then your problem is compounded.
None of us has forever despite the lies about a PE from the WTBTS.
Dont martyr those of your family and friends who could feasibly get out now for the sake of those who are still firmly entrenched.
Take care and dont forget to let us know how you are getting on.
Anglise