I think that some guys posting on this thread are not mature enough to be having sex. Period.
If you're a man and you and whoever has a child step up to the plate and be a DAD. Period.
It's not the child's fault and should not be made to suffer because of 2 inconsiderate adults.
Everyone here knows how sex works...the fetus is in the woman and therefore SHE has control over her body.
Guys have so much already on their side legally, physically, etc. just GET OVER IT!
If it was the man who carried the child, there wouldn't even be a debate!
There is a price to pay to get into an amusement park, sometimes you get a discount and other times you have to pay the full admission price.
Swalker