Lehaa

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  just got df'd

  by susu812 in

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  i am very nervous about being in here.

  i just got df'd last week and am unsure of how i feel about it.

  i feel guilty but at the same time not.

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  Lehaa

  Hi susu,

  Welcome to the board.

  Know how you're feeling I was DF'ed about 13 months ago. It's terrible at first but with time you realise it's the best thing that could have happened to you.

  Take time to heal then go enjoy your life, it is a much happier friendlier place than the borg makes it out to be.

  For the first time in my life i'm truly happy, I'm now with a man that truly loves me and my kids, I have a great group of friends that I can rely on and an adopted family that is fantastic.

  Hang in there it is really scary at first but once you get used to it it's wonderful.

  Leah.
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  I just talked to my mom about my sexual abuse.

  by kwintestal in

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  2. child-abuse

  i have been having a really crappy day (except for the 2 hours i had coffee and chat with talesin .

  i can't believe how understanding and co-operative they were.

  my mom did say, "i bet you don't think we handled it correctly.

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  Lehaa

  Congtatulations, well done.

  It's great that you have your parents behind you, you're going to need all the help and support you can get.

  Glad your crappy day got a lot better.

  Huggs, Leah
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  Bad boys V's Nice guys

  by Lehaa in

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  ok all you girls out there.. which do you prefer and why?.

  or can a bad boy be nice.. and i'm not talking about the crims.. you know, motor bikes, tattoo's, etc.. leah - of the can't get enough of vin diesel

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  Lehaa

  Seriously, I like Nice guys with a naughty streak.

  Bit like me

  Bad boys are way too much heart ache.
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  DAMN THE BOYS!!

  by betty boop in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first i havent posted in awhile so i wanted to say hello to everyone.

  also give you an update on my "love" life, or lack there of.

  any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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  Lehaa

  move on baby.

  Catch up with some friends, you'll find somone else.

  If you're interested in meeting a new someone special, put the feelers out to friends, you may be surprised who can help.

  Even online friends.

  I'm having coffee this saturday with a guy who is a friend of someone I talk to online. I was telling him how I'm sick of sitting at home alone on the weekend. He gave the email address of a friend of his who lives close by me, we've realy hit it off and are meeting this weekend.
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  HoW to KlEaN A ToiLEt,

  by orangefatcat in

  1. social
  2. humour

  this is cute and i hope no one takes offense.

  i dedicate this to monkey kls.

  instructions on how to clean your toilet .

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  Lehaa

  lol. love it
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  Coming clean about what's been going on lately, I need to talk......

  by Jez in

  1. social
  2. family

  well, my sil and best friend came to this site on my recommendation (jw).

  i just wanted her to check it out without judgement as we have always been able to talk about everything.

  she basically was disgusted, said it was full of crap and lies and would never look at it again.

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  Lehaa

  (((((Jez)))))

  Feeling for you now.

  It's hard when friends are soo irrational.

  You are a great person, don't let her get to you.

  Hang in there.
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  Feed a Fever, Starve a Cold?

  by SixofNine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  or starve a fever, feed a cold?

  or is it all crap and you should just listen to your stomach?

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  Lehaa

  I think its, starve a fever feed a cold.

  All I know is that when i'm sick I'm not hungry at all.

  Listen to your body, it knows best.
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  Toddlers

  by JW83 in

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  hi, does anyone have tips on how to get a 2yo to dress herself or let me dress her in the morning when i am in a hurry & her dad has left her shoes at her grandmother's, and we are late, and my thesis is due in 3 days, without completely losing it?!!

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  Lehaa

  Don't be too tough on yourself, we all loose it every now and then.

  I've got two kids, 7 and 3.

  One word of advice, authority. You must have it at all times, it's sooo hard to do but things work much better when you have it.

  They need to know that you are in control not them.

  If you need any real advice try Super Nanny. She's fantastic, she's given me faith in myself as a parent.

  http://abc.go.com/primetime/supernanny/

  Oh yeah and avishai's advice of making it a game works well, and it's fun. Works for dinner time tooo.
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  Were you allowed to play sports?

  by love11 in

  1. social
  2. physical

  i was never allowed to play sports, because it would be too much association with worldly people.

  no skating, dance class, racquet ball, softball, nothing.

  in my kingdom hall, only the "spiritually weak" played sports.

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  Lehaa

  yep, but only if it was in school time.

  Sucked.
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  Bad boys V's Nice guys

  by Lehaa in

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  ok all you girls out there.. which do you prefer and why?.

  or can a bad boy be nice.. and i'm not talking about the crims.. you know, motor bikes, tattoo's, etc.. leah - of the can't get enough of vin diesel

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  Lehaa

  Ok all you girls out there.

  Which do you prefer and why?

  Or can a bad boy be nice.

  And i'm not talking about the crims.

  You know, motor bikes, tattoo's, etc.

  Leah - of the can't get enough of Vin Diesel