As a teenager, I was hauled into the library by 3 elders who questioned me about the rumored loose conduct on a ski trip I attended with many other dubs.
I did not rat anyone out, but I refused to confirm an alibi that one of my friends had given. He said he was hanging out with me, but he was really getting busy with his girlfriend.
Long story short, he was dfed and the girl was publicly reproved. Believe it or not I was not sorry or remorseful at all about not lying to protect my friend. I thought I had done the right thing.
It was truly a misguided mistake on my part and after leaving the "troof" I felt deeply saddened by it.
What a surprise it was to me that this guy was one of the first people to befriend me when I got dfed and he is still a very close friend.
He actually thanked me for being honest, it basically led to his freedom.
Even with that said, if I could do it all over again, I would not rat him out.