it's just about doing it, and experiencing it, just being, or these words don't mean much.
That about sums it up.
This is why we don't have to talk about it explicitly. Obviously all you do on a message board is talk, but if you are doing it it can be about anything. I think many of us are kind of intellectually inclined by temperament or what have you, but part of really 'getting it' is just letting it go through our everyday life, and as that includes everything, naturally it would include everything we talk about, and how we relate to people in every way.
We may be under the impression that it is something you grasp intellectually and then "apply" like applying bible principles from the JW days, but regardless of content it is not that process. What I have found is that being a newbie in some spiritual sense, whether it's in the classic religious follower or this, one tends to get excited about the intellectualization of it. By comparison the seasoned veteran is not all too concerned with the ideas involved, (unless it is a teacher, in which case it is their job) but you can tell (if you are paying attention to those things) it is there by the way they go about all kinds of things in life. If you are only looking for a conceptual description of it naturally you will not notice all the other ways it shows up. Yet you might have an ordinary simpleton who hasn't a clue about how to describe it that way, but if you hang around them you are in fact experiencing it through their every action. So it would be like catching a glimpse of the real deal, but spending most of your time and energy being concerned with a model of it. (and then you turn around and try to make something real based on the model..)