jed,
I'm not saying that God does not have a mind, nor breath, nor speech, just that, that too is seeing things in a physical way.
I think I know what your saying, but my view is slightly different. I understand God as three people in agreement, not just one person with three attributes, though the view of one person with three attributes is very close because neglecting my own understanding I find that to be almost the same.
As with christian marriage, there are three - two people and God. He is not in the position of 'other', as in blessing from afar, but with them in the marriage. And to "let no man rend asunder that which God has joined" includes with Himself.
Imagine speaking to a married christian person who is so perfectly in love and agreement with their partner, and God, that you could in a way be speaking to either of them, just the same, though the person you are speaking to is an 'individual' so to speak; - or imagine speaking to either a father or son who work and live together and are so content with one another, having the same spirit, both together and individually, the spirit being the friend of each, that you could be speaking to either of them, the same things in the same way, or your heart could even converse with the same spirit.
So then, imagine talking to one person of God, who is in perfect love with God, friends of each, yet also an 'individual' person so to speak, with "light in Himself".
Did you know that trinitarians understand God in a manner sort of like that ?
Bang