Transference, thats the word for it..the nature love that she took away from you is now going to be poured out on you child, it is complicated, because it becomes a matter of choices on your part. Depending on where your head and heart are, you can hope the forgiveness you would show her in letting her help with the baby would open her eyes as to what she is doing to you, if it is only a ploy to make your child a new convert, then I would say no. If she can love her son whom she can see, how can she love Jehovah who she can't? Who has the greater love, you or her? If we wanted to apply what Christ said about causing divison in families then divorce to an unbleiving mate would be advocated, it is not. Those divison are mentioned with all the signs of the time of the end, thats when families will split because of beliefs, and no one knows that time but Jehovah. The preumptousness of the WTS to divide families places a huge blood guilt on them. Our hearts tell us what our God expects on us as individuals, just as an earthly father expects diferent things from each of his individual children, never asking more than they can do.
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Need some advice
by KICKED OUT ini have not been on here in a long time but i have always valued the advice of everyone, so here goes.....i am dfd and my wife has never been a part of the org.
we are getting ready to have our first child in may.
my mother who is now living in patterson(at one of the motherships) speaks to me every 1 to 2 years.
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How long do you stay in love?
by Thegoodgirl ini have a question:.
how long do you stay in love?
for those of you who are married, are you together "just for the kids"?
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lesterd
The honeymoon started July 2, 1966 and ended March 27, 2000 when she died of cancer. It was a high that has never been match and I'm still in love with her.
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Once You Had Doubts, How Long Before You Got On The Internet?
by minimus inthe watchtower society keeps telling everyone to stay away from the evil internet.
they claim that once you surf the internet, even if it's done innocently, it's the beginning of the end.
were you personally affected in your faith because you turned on the computer?
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lesterd
I found the internet to be an endless recource of research infomation that only built my beliefs in what the truth really is, it was like playing cards with a full deck, not just one suit. Evil exist everywhere, you have to know how much you want to swallow, or not and the single suit borg forced it all down our throats. I didnt look on the internet before because I didnt know the knowledge was ou there, didnt think any JW would ever vent their feelings and revealation so openly. It started for me when a dear freind, Wendy, shared CofC with me. Almost shaking I openned the book and read a lot of my own life experiences, I wasnt the devil, I wasnt crazy.
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Col 2:16-19 in CO's talk
by lookingnow25 init's time for my once every 3 years visit.
started out lookingnow22, then lookingnow25, now it could be lookingnow28.
still struggling in the org.
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lesterd
"not holing on to the head", very good, the sleep of the borg is beginning to clear from our eyes
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How many x jdubs want to write a book?
by Alex Delta inif i only got a nickel every time i heard an x jdub say i should write a book, i'd be a zillioniare.
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lesterd
Mine would be a horor story of epic proportions
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so are there really co's and elders who are undercover appostates???
by newly unsure inso are there really co's and elders who are undercover appostates??
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lesterd
Soome of those GO where the need is great are borg infiltrators looking for the dirt. There are those who are asigned to congregation that are weak to weed out the apostates, my brother-n-law was one, his wife a pioneer and he anointed. Seen a number of BOEs fall by his sword.
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lesterd
Seeing my wife cut to the heart by her self rightouse family, because of my fading, made my decission ever right. I was the apple of their eye when thier son, who is now an elder, was convicted of rape and went to prison, quote, my son stabbed me in the back, and I was their real son." Talk about back stabbing. MIL refused to stop visiting her son in jail, and the JC had me talk to her, she said Jesus himself couldnt make her stop seeing him. But they stopped seeing there sinlesss daughter socially because I stopped going to the meetings.
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What J.W teaching did you find the hardest to accept??
by karter infor me it was the fact that god is allowing all these innocent people to get killed to prove a point ,i mean it was a big bet he had with satan.. i explained it to my wife this way if i had our children killed in the most horriable way just to show they couldn't live without me how does that make me look?.
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lesterd
Them sticking their nose im the bedroom
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Jan KM question box
by carla inthe question is- what two publications should be studied with interested ones?
they go on about the bible teach book for starting a bible study, it's ok to use some other tract, after the bible teach is worship god book.
they should finish both books even if qualifying for baptism before then.
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lesterd
Once wshed, then through the ringer
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MAgnesium and my migraine
by Vivamus inwell, first off, to you whom suggested magnesium to me, thank you (i think) .
my headaches have been a constant source of misery for me since my last desperate post regarding them.
but i did start on the magnesium treatment.
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lesterd
I was having prism like light in my eyes, like those crystals we watched growing in science class. Headaches did accompany them but not what I would consider really bad, optomolygist diognosed them a mirgraines, I didnt not ask for meds, I will have to look into the magnesium though. Hope you find relief soon.