Not being a JW brings some strange responsibilities with it, doesn't it Jeff? You loved because you HAD to. (One brother referred to agape love as "Love ya 'cause I gotta") I mean, maybe you would've anyway, but the rule overrode any emotion on the subject.
Abortion? Wrong. End of discussion.
Is the Bible completely true? Yep.
Is there a God? Well, DUH!
Now that the JW rulebook is tossed aside, you suddenly find yourself burdened with coming up with your OWN answers to these questions.
I've pondered the 'take a bullet' question too. I concluded that I would RISK my life for them or anyone else, but I wouldn't GIVE my life for them. The level of risk I'd be willing to take increases with the level of love I have for the person in need. There are a select few I would actually *give* my life for.
Dave