Welcome to the board!
I enjoyed your story and can relate on some points(shunned for fading,goatee).I applaud people who can make a stand and live up to it.If you haven't read Crisis of Conscience and In Search of Christian Freedom,get them, you'll find them to be real eye-openers and they'll give you something to share with your former jw friends.
Btw,I'm from Ontario but I like the the Trailer Park Boys from the East coast.
Goldminer