Caspian,
See what I mean? There are a lot of people that have self-control and moral values. I hope you're not married. (I don't remember what you wrote) but, if you are, I feel sorry for your wife because of your attitude. Like I said before - infidelity breaks the heart of the one cheated on. It does change the trust and respect you have for that person who cheats. If you have a problem w/your mate, go get help. The answer is not to cheat to see if the "Grass is greener on the other side of the fence." Also, any good women /man would not want to involve themselves w/another person. It shows the character of that woman/man. She/he would want to wait until one relationship is over before starting a new one.
Juni (one who knows first hand of the pain that infidelity causes)