Quoting Rex:
"This is a particularly vile bunch of people."
I too, strongly disagree with this comment. I have yet to have one experience that I consider bad. And I think the reason I haven't had one is because of the way I treat others on this board. I respect their viewpoints even if I do not agree with them. Although I do TRY to refrain from vulgarities and judgementalness myself, if another doesn't do the same, it doesn't mean I'm better than them. We're all imperfect humans, but we are all accountable for our actions - good and bad. I just think that there is a way to be firm, stand up for yourself, make a point and NOT be rude or judgemental about it. When I see rude replies on this board, it is usually because there is something about the original post that was rude or offensive to begin with. I've said it before - the delivery of the message is just as important as the message itself.
I am usually treated with a lot of respect on this board. Why? I'd like to think it's because I give respect on this board. I firmly believe that others will treat you the way you treat them. If someone treats me like crap, it is all the more reason for me to be kind back. More often than not, the person realizes their words/actions were uncalled for and then begin treating me with respect. Rudeness begets rudeness. Kindness begets kindness.
Eventually what goes around, comes around. Good and evil. Does anybody disagree?
Billygoat