I put a police report in and called the grandson's mothers' attorney and was able to stop the weekend visit and week visit. Now my son is going to charge her with contempt of court. Human Services are questioning our son and his wife this week. But know one believes the boy. My son is such a liar and I don't feel confident we will get any where. Now what?
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW stepmother
by slvrtrixter inthis needs a new topic because now i have the step mother hitting my grandson on his penis.
so i have reported this and social services are calling our eight year old grandson a liar.
they told the maternal grandmother not to ask questions about the weekend visits with his dad.
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW stepmother
by slvrtrixter inthis needs a new topic because now i have the step mother hitting my grandson on his penis.
so i have reported this and social services are calling our eight year old grandson a liar.
they told the maternal grandmother not to ask questions about the weekend visits with his dad.
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This needs a new topic because now I have the step mother hitting my grandson on his penis. So I have reported this and Social Services are calling our eight year old grandson a liar. They told the maternal grandmother not to ask questions about the weekend visits with his Dad. The boy's attorney (gal) will only enforce a C.H.I.P.S. petion if social services asks him to. My son picks him up today and is suppose to get him for a week. My grandson doesn't want to go. I am speechless. Now what? The mother's attorney said not to take the boy to the doctor so much. What do you do when my grandson is crying that his penis hurts? The doctor could not get out of my grandson why it was hurting so nothing was reported. My grandson just started to talk about it. Who do I turn to ?
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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My grandson shows up from visiting his Dad with a lump on his head and hair missing. His step mother did it. She was trying to get him to admit to something. Social Services investigated about the weekend of July 15th. My son is calling his eight year old a liar. And treating him like one. According to the other grandmother he doesn't want to talk to any adults at Social Services since his life is hell with my son. My son has the whole congregation and his brother the ministerial servant against this boy. Should I report the hair pulling to Social Services??
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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Yes, the red tape is flying and I don't know how to cut it. I reported my grandson's conversation about him being hit on the July 15th weekend to Social Services. I handed printouts about Jehovah's Witnesses and their child abuse to the gal lawyer and the boy's mother's lawyer. Now they are leaving the firm or suddenly have confict of interests. Social Service did call our son who then called our grandson and accused him of lying. He said something about not hitting him that hard and it was serious to be lying. I get a call late last night and my grandson was having an anxiety attack big time. So I told them to go to the emergency psych hospital. No one has the power or correct proof to cancel our son's upcoming weekend visit. There is no way to check on him. Most of the apartment complex is witnesses. Wisconsin gives parents the power to use coporal punishment and there seems to be a fine line to prove child abuse. I think the child has to be dead first in Dane county.
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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My grandson was beaten on Sunday by his dad. He didn't want to go to the meeting and so my son spanked him so hard he can hardly walk. His step mom put her hand over his mouth and his eyes so the neighbors would not hear him. I saw my grandson and he told me this. I sat most of the day at social services to make a report and when I get to the intake worker tells me it has to be reported in the mom's county. I will have to call Wednesday. The lawyers are just waiting. I just want to explode. My grandson is at the doctors now. I saw my grandson Saturday and he wanted to come with me but my son refused. I bought my grandson a cell phone but my son won't let it in the house. I can't take much more of this.
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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Well, another weekend and my son gets his son. The attorney is hired by my ex- daughter- in -law. The grandson went to a psychologist who puts him in a group of kids who have anger problems. All happens next week. Child protective services have known since 2002. Still waiting for guardian ad litem for grandson. All takes time. So is my grandson safe this weekend?
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Need help sending a letter
by slvrtrixter inmy ex-daughter-in law wants to send a letter to the congregation where my son a jw goes.
she has never been a witness.
my son abuses his son physically.
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Thanks for the info. Yes, this has been reported to the authorities since 2002. The police think this is an ex wife retaliating for my son remarrying. My son lives in Baraboo WI. It seems if you do not have money you do not get service or protection. I just thought a letter to the elders might help. HA HA
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Need help sending a letter
by slvrtrixter inmy ex-daughter-in law wants to send a letter to the congregation where my son a jw goes.
she has never been a witness.
my son abuses his son physically.
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My ex-daughter-in law wants to send a letter to the congregation where my son a jw goes. She has never been a witness. My son abuses his son physically. Hopefully we can put pressure on the elders. Does she send the letter to secretary or po? Who we don"t know. Or just send it to kingdom hall? Should she send it registered? She does not live in the same city as ex.
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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My son has asked the court to give him more visitation with his son. In fact so much he will have physical custody, along with joint. Now what? Where is there a God when you need one? This is a nightmare.
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what to do? Grandson being beaten by JW father
by slvrtrixter ini am an inactive jw who has 3 sons left in the religon.
my oldest son has been baptized for4 years and has recently married again.
he gets his son every other weekend.
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Well I have been a lurker on this site for some time. It is not suspicious when a child abuse situation is happening. I live in a rural area about 10 miles from my son. I called over the weekend. No one answered their cell phone. Sunday I got through after their meeting. I asked if I could come over. Sunday is their cleaning day and they had plans at 2:00 and my grandson had to be back in Madison ,WI at 5:00 pm. So I did not get to see my grandson. My grandson has a cell phone in case he gets lost with 911 number but the reception is not available at his Dad's. And my son seems to not let him near the cell phone. I am a real grandmother with a real problem. I only share this information because I thought others might know what to do. Your ideas have helped. Thanks.