I predicted the 1995 change to my new jw husband (just baptized) and he was amazed. But I did not leave yet. It wasn't until 2000 that I left totally, not even weddings and funerals. I am probably considered just inactive so far. I was PIMO for too long. But the WTS gave me a big push with 3 statements at the same circuit assembly: 1) Their god conditions his jw people like a baby elephant chained to a tree that allowed the baby to go only so far. It was trained to think it could only go so far, even when it became a big elephant and could pull the tree up 2) told people that their non-jw spouses were walking dead people (zombies) despite some non-jw spouses were their with their jw spouse 3) That Jesus is not interested in people with problems (dirty). Not the Jesus their bible describes.
That was in the morning and I told my husband I was leaving and never participating in any jw activities again. I told him if he did not come with me, I was taking the car home and he could catch a ride. He came home with me and we both left in 6 months; turned away the elders, said we had health issues and did not need to talk to them. They don't drop by now after almost 25 years. We don't miss them at all. The first morning we got up and did not go to the Sunday meeting was like being let out of prison. We got up when we wanted, read the paper had a nice cup of coffee and breakfast and have ever since. Love Blondie