By Golly, it is different where some of you are ! You speak of elders phoning the flock, chasing up lectter writing , blimey !
My wife hears nothing from her elders. Any info ,like how to use zoom has to be asked for and dragged out of them . They don't care. . When we have tuned to zoom, a lot are casually dressed and we block the camera so our presence is shown by an avatar and just a name... No way would they see US !