Jst2laws,
I have read this thread from the time it started and had decided not to post to it as I do not wish to add anymore to the "harsh criticism" of elders or former elders, but, one thing keeps bothering me about your comments:
Quote:
"I learned from those many years not to waste time on systems nor people who are more concern with being RIGHT than understanding the perspective of others. I have left destructive associations that thrive on harsh and judgmental views."
and:
"Having decided to not even read the negative posts or work of the posters I have failed to consider the posiblity you have proposed."
The attitude of "I am so busy, I don't have time for your problem" and in some cases the attitude that is very evident you can almost hear them thinking "Who are you, I am so intelligent and I am an ELDER, who do you think YOU are to question ME"
I do not mean to put you in that catagory but your comments above brought back those memories.
I am happy for every elder who starts waking up and seeing the WT for what it really is, and I am even more happy for the ones who bravely separate themselves from that disgusting organization. I will be happy to aid any, that I know, if the occasion ever arises.
I know several ex-elders and they are wonderful people, I treasure their friendship. I have also met some who give the impression that they think their prestige should be transfered from elder to non-elder and that they should be treated with high honor just as they expected in the organization.
I resent the high-mindedness of some, if that elder is truly a good friend/brother he does not have to demand honor, he will be given it gladly and willingly.
I do not have any respect for an elder who learns the truth and then keeps acting as a "faithful" representative of the WT organization. By staying in that position he is encouraging others to continue in their course. I have family in the WT. Some of the elders go out of their way to "adopt" my family and keep them "strong" in the organization.
Those elders have displayed wrong motives and in at least one case an elder was disfellowshipped. That elder fits the description I stated above, one who demands great honor, he is a self-righteous, self-serving person. He was just recently reappointed as elder. How should I feel about such a person?
I do not know you, so I do not mean to put you in any catagory. I do wish you all the best in your journey.
(My apolegies to any who has posted something while I was preparing this post, that is, if I repeated your thoughts.)
Borgfree
"Without knowledge there can be no genuine faith--only superstition on the one hand or speculation on the other" Robert Banks