Oh and has to be able to make me laugh.
Sparkplug
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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Sparkplug
sparkplug, you don't ask for much, do ya? lol
Well if you really read it...It is not really that hard. Basically.. Love sex. Want to be pampered. Be nice to me. Act fair and reasonable and dont be a bore....honesty and loyal...and it should be a snap. Mostly. Really look at it. It is not hard. I am not looking for a daddy to step in. Nor a rich man. Nor a super looking got to have it all super handsome man. Just be a reasonable man. Be honest and and an honorable person. Have interest of your own. And be good to me. Be loyal and proud of me. Things that should come naturally. All the rest if it comes in the package is WONDERFUL!! I am an easy going person. And I put up with a lot.........A lot. But just be honest. And loyal. Act like a person should. And show some class. I don't want the bottom of the barrel by any means. You have to be specific or you will get any old loser. You know? Truly Big Drew...A girl has to have high standards. Basically mine is I do not ask what I won't give.
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Describe the Perfect Woman or Man....
by Dragonlady76 inok after the serena williams thread and a few others that focus on looks i want to know what your idea of perfection in the opposite or same sex is.. i like muscular men with a full head of hair, i love classic features like a strong nose and jaw.. i also find blond blue eyed men sexy (don't ask me why).
i don't like that are to thin, nice teeth and soft eyes.. ok now it's your turn.. .
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Sparkplug
Challenges my mind and does not let me get away with everything and yet does not hold me under his thumb or try to break my spirit.
He accepts my children and yet does not force himself upon them. He lets them come to him.
He has a sense of himself and yet is not full of himself.
He understands that I will give way more than I ever expect if I am treated right and will never take as much as I deserve if just treated with respect.
He will let me be a partner and will be creative with me.
He will accept pampering and will be forced to endure backrubs and kisses and endless hours of creative and aggressive sex. I will be as playful and as creative as you want to be. If I am not as he wishes...he can teach me something new. I am not afraid to try it once. If I tried it and hated it...I will tell him. If I have something to teach him...he will let me and not question me where I learned it.
He will not be jealous, but he will be protective and acknowledge what is his.
He will have to be creative with his eating habits and be smart. He must be willing to try culinary arts.
Intelligent conversation is a must and good debating skills are a must. He must have knowledge to offer.
He must know there will be some hard ass times and that my family is loony as the day is long and that most of the time he will never see them.
He must accept that I have some deep scars that cause me to just look at the world a bit different than others and perhaps I am a bit tougher to crack than some.
He must understand that I love harder than most and I have a hot temper but it takes a lot for me to get to the point where I will show it.
But once I do show it I don't back out of a fight easily and I am honest about what I am feeeling to a fault.
I can be the sweetest thing you have ever known and yet again the meanest thing you have ever bedded.
He will accept help.
He will help.
He will accept love and caring in vast amounts.
He will be willling to be loyal and honest.
Communication is a must.
He has to be willing to keep trying even when times get rough.
When times are hard, and everything sucks...he will just be. Just hang on with me and just be. Hugs are good. You know the kind that just last for hours. Till you fall asleep. Mascara on his shirt, hair all askew, and he does not care. He lets you cry and he just breathes. Even if he is scared or unsure. You hang on together.
He has interest that I may not understand, but he lets me choose to be a part of them or not. He does not block me out or decide for me. He lets me have interest and I will let him choose the same. Like I love sewing. Maybe he wont give a damn about it. (But I'll let him choose.)
Futhermore... The perfect man loves me for me. I love him for him...
Mistakes and all.
He does not have to be tall dark and handsome. He does not have to have a certian color of eyes and a certian color of hair. He does not have to be loaded with muscles or not loaded with muscles or of a certian race or style, class or birthright, money acount or even a skillset...I will know him when I see him and he will know me.
It will not be perfect, but it will be perfect for me.
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Interesting snapshots from the current WT Page
by Mincan ini can tell you what post-traumatic stress disorder is.
it is the intense feelings of anguish you experience after a terrible experience.
say having your entire life stolen from you.
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Sparkplug
OH HELL NO! They did not GO THERE...Freaking insult to injury...A55holes.
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Glory Be! I'm Invited to "Follow The Christ!"
by SixofNine ini find it's always interesting to listen in on never-been-jw's when they are discussing the "je-ho's".
enjoy :.
click: discussion board topic: convention invitation.
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Sparkplug
I think everyone was busy staring at your neck.
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Mother Teresa doubted God's existence during her last years
by Gregor inher personal diarys and letters have revealed she doubted gods reality and this in turn caused her to ask herself "is jesus true?
" she no longer prayed right up until her death.
in my opinion this in no way detracts from her being a wonderful, self sacrificing woman.
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Sparkplug - I was being scarcastic. But my friend Joseph, in his delusions, remarks about the abounding kindnesses - and I ask WTF? What a hellhole! "No Lawrence, by His mercies we are provided with abounding blessings in all things." Hey Joseph, how about another brandy?
Whew.. I thought I caught a wiff of that, but making sure. And yes right now it is most assuredly not a balance place. You might give him two fingers worth. Cheers!
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Will This Latest Scandal Finally Prompt You To Leave?
by sweet pea in.
in view of the latest uk child abuse scandal, have any of you lurkers/faders/still ins finally decided to make a clean break and leave openly, for good?
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Sparkplug
There was a mention on the thread for one at least that this was the final thing for the person. FYI. It is good to see. Hard for the person I am sure, but very good to see. I hope they stay around for support.
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Mother Teresa doubted God's existence during her last years
by Gregor inher personal diarys and letters have revealed she doubted gods reality and this in turn caused her to ask herself "is jesus true?
" she no longer prayed right up until her death.
in my opinion this in no way detracts from her being a wonderful, self sacrificing woman.
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Sparkplug
Sparkplug - Just to clarify, my statement was not correct, it was letters to friends this came from, diaries were not mentioned. It was reported in a CBS news story and a book that is being released. Try google.
Ah Thanks Gregor. Why is it that the last thing I ever think of is Google. I annoy myself. Google is right in front of my face. Damn. lol
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Mother Teresa doubted God's existence during her last years
by Gregor inher personal diarys and letters have revealed she doubted gods reality and this in turn caused her to ask herself "is jesus true?
" she no longer prayed right up until her death.
in my opinion this in no way detracts from her being a wonderful, self sacrificing woman.
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Sparkplug
have felt this way living in beautiful India, where prosperity abounds to all?
Lawrence~I love how you wrote your paragraph. lol and I mean this in the most lighthearted of ways, but this is one funny as hell question. You are joking right?
Gregor. Where can I find these diaries? This is most interesting. I absolutely admire her work and often refer to her quotes. She lived an amazing life. Strange as it may seem I would find her even more amazing if this were found true. A humanist. Something I always admire if done right.
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Just to let you know
by Rethinking ini've decided to cut my ties with jws.. i don't post here much as i've stated before, but you all don't realize how much i appreciate this forum and the support it gives..
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Sparkplug
Well that is great to hear. I am sure this is not as easy in actual life as it may be to type. If you ever need to type about it, we will still be here. Maybe we will see you at an apostafest. It is a big step, but it is as anonymous as you want it to be and a lot of fun and we tend to have lasting ties and make some longtime friends and family from there.
Decki
Happy for you!