Clothes make the man, dude.- If your wardrobe is dated, you will be swimming against the current. And about the wimp advice- spot on. Ladies like a confident man- in charge kinda guy. Change your first name to Raul-
Stay away from lawyers, psychology and sociology majors- nothing but trouble for you.
It is the fact shw knows my views on God and religon and other issues.
You have picked the topic that is the kiss of death- that and politics. Talk about music, getting high, favorite beer, sports, anything but religion. Stop shooting yourself in the foot. -- and never, never mention JWs- only weird people discuss that religious group in public.