Maybe you need a new boyfriend- find one who has been disfellowshipped- invite him over for sit down meals and talk about the elders and the batshit Globbering body.
Ask your mom, is she wants to help plan a WT anniversary party for next year--
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36Trying to handle my JW mom
by KatyMomof2 inmy mom is a recent widow.
she, being a jw does not have means to support herself and does not seek higher education ( because that would take from her studies ).
so, she is living ( sponging off of ) me.
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Nervous confronting a women I like
by d ini am trying to talk to a women at school i like.
i have emailed her but she did not respond back what i should i do?
i still get nervous around women..
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moshe
single woman is approachable- but the odds are good she is waiting for someone, married, from out of town, new and just scoping out the place etc--first time just casually say hi, introduce yourself- the next time you see her, if she remembers your name, that is an opening. Women are sizing you up- are you popular, have the gift of gab- good at playing darts, or a loner? If you are a loner, the next time she comes in she will be looking for the popular guy not the quiet one.
2 girls-- not good, no way will you be able to get cozy with one and pry her from the other-- BFF dictates they stick together-- unless one is very heavy, then she might be just casual company and the thin girl will be happy to abandon her- or --- maybe, they like each other's company just fine, without a guy- if one is wearing a ballcap that says, Yes I am-- definitely they are just for socializing, not a date .
3 girls-- the best setup. You can chat with all three- maybe one is interested in you, and if she wants to have a drink with you or dance with you, she doesn't feel like she has dumped her other girlfriends. If nothing develops, walking away from a table of three doesn't look bad at all, - not like the walk of shame from the table of one--
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Trying to handle my JW mom
by KatyMomof2 inmy mom is a recent widow.
she, being a jw does not have means to support herself and does not seek higher education ( because that would take from her studies ).
so, she is living ( sponging off of ) me.
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moshe
If she is so scared of the demons, then by all means give her plenty to worry about- apostate coffee table books- play the sound track from youtube movies about JWs. The local KH will have to find her a place to live or she will have a crisis of conscience about the WT religion. Regardless, if Jehovah is on her side, then let Jehovah provide. Your rules or the highway is resonable.
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Nervous confronting a women I like
by d ini am trying to talk to a women at school i like.
i have emailed her but she did not respond back what i should i do?
i still get nervous around women..
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moshe
I think all this texting and emailing have kept guys from learning the art of how to talk to girls in person. I never thought about it before.
You go into a club- there is a table with one attractive girl, one with two girls and one with three girls- all things being equal which table do you head for to strike up a conversation?
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Nervous confronting a women I like
by d ini am trying to talk to a women at school i like.
i have emailed her but she did not respond back what i should i do?
i still get nervous around women..
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moshe
email is not a good way to communicate- she can read it and ignore it. If she isn't interested, she can claim that she never saw it- maybe the spam blocker got it, etc. Regardless, women only like romance, when they are ready and wanting it. You need to get a book on body language and study, study it. - and handwriting- avoid girls who write really small and no slant- unless you are looking for a woman to play scrabble with and help you run a successful business. Avoid girls who write large & slanted and with large lower loops, unless you are looking for a really good time and have the money to spend on them.
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Nervous confronting a women I like
by d ini am trying to talk to a women at school i like.
i have emailed her but she did not respond back what i should i do?
i still get nervous around women..
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moshe
You ar right I have to be confident.But I always try to take a girls feelings into consideration. To me that is very hard.
You have to know how to answer their inquiries-
Q- what are you looking for? Ans- (a chick looking for fun won't ask this question)- so the correct answer is A- why, a serious long term relationship" . That is an open ended answer - six months later you can honestly answer that in your mind six months is "long Term"
Q- are you interested in marriage? A loaded question! the correct answer is " well, I'm not afraid of the jewelry store" ( delivered with a passionate kiss)- six months later you can admit that you meant regular Jewelry- not an engagement ring
Q ( from women who are divorced with kids) Do you like kids? Ans- I love children- I have four of them myself- would you like to watch them for me next weekend while I go fishing? (moshe weeded out a lot of needy women looking for a meal ticket) You can feel the girl go limp on the dance floor when she hears the "4 kids part".
Q what kind of work are you in? (fishing for your income, etc) A- "I'm in a professional in a successful industry, etc.- and you?" --You can be a window washer and this works for you- Amateurs work for free- professionals get paid for what they do.
Seriously, the guy who treats women like a cad, can't shake them off. I went so far as to tell a lady, "there are two men in a woman's life-- the guy she is with (me) and the guy she is supposed to be with." I thought for sure she would take the hint and stop trying to turn a relationship into a marriage- nope- she tried even harder, using the time tested tools that women control men with. --didn't work.
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What is your experience when you stop turning in time?
by gingerbread infor the past year or so, i've been turning in just one or two hours of service time.
it has been mentioned to me from an elder "friend" that i'm never seen at any meetings for field service.
i get his implication.
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moshe
Of course an elder, brother Shawver ( now deceased) wanted to know why I hadn't been out in service. I told him I had been busy and when I had some time to turn in, I would let him know. Within a couple months I was done going to the meetings, too. (1988)
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WHAT IF the Watchtower Society were a MAP company instead?
by Terry inthe world's most accurate map maker advertises:.
"ours are the best and most accurate maps in the entire world!.
how can we make such an absolute claim?.
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moshe
I had one of those WT maps for 16 years--
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Kidnaper of 3 Cleveland women - his mom a JW
by Gayle inhttp://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/castro-brothers-spend-night-jail-article-1.1338131#ixzz2sjzrxozd.
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moshe
Nobody else knows anything?
Bull twinkies -
Family never heard banging on pipes, yelling, noticed extra trash from the prisoners, was there a toilet in the basement?- how was the human waste disposed of? ? They didn't wonder about the locked doors or the extra groceries he was buying?
Plenty more people are guilty of knowing something, but keeping their silence.
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Bachelor's Degree
by mamamo ini finally graduated with my bachelor's degree last saturday.
i really wish i hadn't taken as long as i did.
my high school graduation was 30 years ago.
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moshe
My neighbor is a retired waste-water treatment pant operator (poop plant) from Ohio. He started out as a utility man and worked up- it was a city job with a nice pension. He is 55 and makes about $50K a year with his pension ( no SS- his job was exempt)- He mentioned how all his educated HS friends made fun of his job- but they aren't laughing now. Sometimes the lowly government job without the glitz is the one to retire from.
