BALAAMSASS2:
You say she ‘banked on her looks’ to supposedly snag a better guy. Even though this is probably your opinion (I guess).. because I’d be shocked she would have actually said it - it is possible she might have believed this.
But, with the shocking story you related about what she did to you: once this was heard on the Jehovah’s Witness gossip circuit and made the rounds far and wide, her chances were nil. I think it was as you said, that suitors were scared away.
How does this relate to the OP? These things are all the end results of a cult-like religion with a tattletale culture that knocks education, careers and planning for the future.