RATTIGAN350:
You are right that it is nobody’s business in the congregation (or anywhere else for that matter) whether somebody goes to college, goes to the hospital or has a career. This is a major issue in the Jehovah’s Witnesses.
I felt this way years ago when I was in the religion and these people stuck their noses where it did not belong. These idiots tried to be all up in my business. (Maybe they do this more with women(?) I tried to keep the busybodies at bay and I ended up not being invited because they are hooked on control and are angry if they don’t get it.