I know how you feel. I was disfellowshipped, reinstated and then slowly faded. But any JWs that see me in public that know me, pretend like they don't see me. My JW sister on the other hand, has more contact with me than our non JW relatives. I don't get it. A bunch of F'd up whackos!
On a lighter note--my JW sister stayed one night at my house a while back (she lives far away), and she slept in my kids' room. I was worried she would be offended by a Nightmare before Christmas calendar hanging on the wall, so I hid it (you know it's demonized!). Well, she snooped through the kids' stuff and found Buffy the Vampire Slayer videos and a rock poster of the group Garbage that talked about bleeding or something like that; she called me a day later after she had went home and told me how worried she was about all the negative stuff in my kids' room and how it may be affecting them emotionally--I had to keep myself from laughing while I told her I appreciated her concern.