This has never made sense to me. If you have a UBM, how is it paradise if they will be destroyed and wont be with you?
Ok so jehoba will erase the memories of your UBM. So now your kids are with you. Who is thier father? Nobody knows because the memories have been erased. So will it be paradise for the kids to look at other kids with whole families but they will be denied a parent?
I dont know I cant even tell you all the problems with paradise.