Reniaa
We seemed to have reached a bit of common ground and a point of reasoning but you have not replied to my question ending my last thread. I will repost it here. Read thru this below and answer my last paragraph....
Reniaa
You say you disagree with shunning and would not partake in that. Do you realize that that would preclude you from rejoining the JWs (assuming you are truly as you claim) or if you are active would lead to your expulsion?
Hi isaac
Erm technically it could be! in practise I think it is unlikely
Reniaa, the room for ones own discretion on the treatment of dfed person's (so long a snothing spiritual is discussed) extends only to family- not friends. Your association with a dfed person not of your family will lead to your expulsion (if it becomes known). There is no "use your discretion" there...especially on having lunch.
At my last congregation before I left the org I only knew of one defellowshipped girl and she used to sit at the back I always said hi to her as she came in and I never got told off for it
As long as kept to a hello you may or may not be counseled.
and did have coffee with her in town
DEFINITE no-no! If revealed will lead to counseling...if not followed will lead to further action.
I still chat to her occasionally.
Will lead to being counseled or more unless it is a family member.
I might believe the Jws doctrines but I've always been very independant in myself I love jehovah and I know that disfellowshipping wouldn't phase me, I'd just do my time and keep my prayers to Jehovah.
Then why do you need the org. You have admitted that they practice dfing in a very unChristlike way that you disagree with. Jesus said that his disciples would be recognized by love among themselves. Do not answer this by stating other religions go to war. This stands or falls on its own merit. You have admitted this does not show love, thus they are not Christ's disciples. You yourself said "He can read hearts and he alone knows that I love him and his son, Gods anger is what worries me more, disfellowshipping is nothing compared to that to me."