jehovah`s witness`s have the most stable marriages..very few jehovah`s witness`s cheat on thier mates..most jehovah`s witness`s stay married for thier entire lifes to the same person..jehovah`s witness`s have the happiest marriages!..becoming jehovah`s witness`s,has saved many marriages..................................................my experience has taught me none of that is true.................what is your experience?............................outlaw.
thats exactly right if i had spent a week living and sleeping with my ex hubby i would not have married him!
and when i did i wasted ten years of my life with someone who hit me but i thought death or adultry was only way out so i stayed for years,
so glad i woke up and smelt the coffee!
the past three weeks having been so stressful and very sad.
my ex husband died after being in hospital for just over a week in intensive care.. i was just 18 and he was 21 when we first met and after a whirlwind romance we married 6 months later and have two sons together who are now adults.
although our marriage ended after 25 years and i remarried 7 years ago, he was my first love and i knew him for most of my life.
i'm so sorry...
is there any chance your younger son could talk to the older one? if you are not dfed or anything he is taking things to the extreme and although i don't know them it sounds like your daughter inn law is the force behind it they can be powerful things!
have you tried writing or anything?
sometimes its easy for me to think i am the only one with a brain washed family then i hear storys like yours and realise its the in the whole dub kingdom the world over...what gets me is why can't they see it?
(((((((hugs))))))))
hi everyone i haven't been on here for a year!
i've just been looking at some of the topics i started god i was mixed up... since getting reinstated i left and went back twice even had a bible study again at one piont!
all for my family, i love them so much they do so muxh for me and love me but show quite clearly how brokenhearted they are that im not at the meetings that makes me feel bad so i go back... after a little while thats not good enough they want me to go with the right heart condition and 'do it properly!'.
thanks again, it does help reading your replies,
i like the scrip reference scully and thats what i was doing 'limping on 2 different opinions' and like someone else commented i am hurting them more as when i cave and say right i,ll go back, then i hate it it hurts them again, they have said its my attitude which hurts them the most..
my brother 2 years younger left when i got dfed as he thought it was ridiculous which it was, so my family feel like they 'lost 2 children', but as he isn't 'apsotate' they can deal with it more but it still upsets them as he 'is going to die at armagadon!' guess i do have to be more careful about what i say.
mind you they say some weird things like, my other brother has heart probs but is really spiritual, my dad said to me 'isn't it a shame that jason has a weak physical heart but a strong spiritual one and you and your other brother have strong physical hearts and a weak spiritual one?
he'd prob perfer me to be ill but strong spiritually!
sorry guys venting again..
hi everyone i haven't been on here for a year!
i've just been looking at some of the topics i started god i was mixed up... since getting reinstated i left and went back twice even had a bible study again at one piont!
all for my family, i love them so much they do so muxh for me and love me but show quite clearly how brokenhearted they are that im not at the meetings that makes me feel bad so i go back... after a little while thats not good enough they want me to go with the right heart condition and 'do it properly!'.
thanks guys
i knew it was agood idea coming back on here,
you are right about my little girl i told my family she will grow up hating it as thats all we arge about my mum just said well when shes older hopefuly she'll know it was you that put us in this position! great init?
then my dad rang this morn to check if i was ok and made me feel bad all over again as he was so nice!
anyway i have made the decision i want nothing to do with it just wish it was easier x
rough draft meant for non jw's, need to shorten it up, etc... comments?.
in a recent awake!
published by the watchtower bible & tract society, delivered by local jehovah witness members, they made this claim:.
that makes me sooo mad! how the hell can they think they are a loving religon?
sad thing is my (and alot of others) familys believe that!!
hi everyone i haven't been on here for a year!
i've just been looking at some of the topics i started god i was mixed up... since getting reinstated i left and went back twice even had a bible study again at one piont!
all for my family, i love them so much they do so muxh for me and love me but show quite clearly how brokenhearted they are that im not at the meetings that makes me feel bad so i go back... after a little while thats not good enough they want me to go with the right heart condition and 'do it properly!'.
Hi everyone i haven't been on here for a year! i've just been looking at some of the topics i started god i was mixed up..
since getting reinstated i left and went back twice even had a bible study again at one piont! all for my family, i love them so much they do so muxh for me and love me but show quite clearly how brokenhearted they are that im not at the meetings that makes me feel bad so i go back... after a little while thats not good enough they want me to go with the right heart condition and 'do it properly!'
so i finally stopped for good last december, and i'm putting myself first for once and not bringing my little girl up in it (she's 7 now)
but just last night it all blew up went for tea at my familys my brother was there (a servant,married baby on the way) and he was arranging a day at his house and said i couldnt come as i wasnt at the meetings, i said think what jesus would do he said he is doing!! we argued i said the religon is wrong with the shunning thing look at david, prodigal son etc etc.. my mum cried coz i was 'apostate' and i left the house
this still happens every few weeks why cant they see that i have tried but its not for me and just be my family!!
i just feel so guilty all the time, how do you guys deal with it?
anyone else feel this way?
i knew before my jw family they didnt beieve it thought i was being apostate again!!.
but now they know i said isn't it good the truth hasn't moved on but life has so thank god they know we are busy people now!!.
they just turned on me with a venom that spat 'you apostate thing' and said it's so we can study better and be more prepaped coz the end is coming!!.
i knew before my jw family they didnt beieve it thought i was being apostate again!!
but now they know i said isn't it good the truth hasn't moved on but life has so thank god they know we are busy people now!!
they just turned on me with a venom that spat 'you apostate thing' and said it's so we can study better and be more prepaped coz the end is coming!!
god whats wrong with these people!!!!
think my family friends have been in ca hootes!!
i been doing great for this past year, but made mistake of going memorial.
and now being hit from all angles.
ive still not been in touch definately the way forward thanks everyone xxxxhard when i see my dads face but still....
(i'm trying) xxxx
think my family friends have been in ca hootes!!
i been doing great for this past year, but made mistake of going memorial.
and now being hit from all angles.
I text my cousin, said im at a doo so cant ring (on a birthday doo) said it was a specail occasion, oops not heard from her since greaT!!!!
that can show themselvlves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
x
ok noone actually gave there proper address haha!!!!!
borg days eh!!!!!
ip yeah that didnt work never mind ill ask gary, (db) im ..... actually ill tell you if you pm me (ha im as BAD AS U LOT!) X
