Hi Wazadummy,
Welcome to the board.
Thank you for relating part of your story. Yes, we are slowly becoming more 'human" when leaving the organisation in some ways...
You will notice that maybe some here have a hatred for the society, but not all. For me, I do not hate the them, and surely I do not have the witnesses. Everyone has a different story, some very painfull, some quite easy. Some are still "in" the organisatrion, like me.
There are so many differences here, but different thought count here and can be expreseed, not suppressed.
Danny