I was the first to hold my daughter when she was born, yes even her mum. We have been close ever since. I was a sole parent with her (her choice) and actually left the witnesses at the same time!!
She has just completed 2 degrees and is happily living with a well adjusted male. We live quite a distance apart but are never disconnected from each other. We actually spoke an hour ago. I am not and will never be a dead beat dad.