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  Crane accident at KH in Victoria, BC Canada

  by OnTheWayOut in

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  2. beliefs

  i never saw this on jwn, either i missed it or it wasn't here, so i post.. this is a recent story (july 27) and a follow-up on the second video:.

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hdg5f43c2pe.

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=waz_stctt5k&feature=related.

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  I wonder who's going to pay for his BIG ASS Hospital bill?

  Our healthcare system. Our tax $$ at work.
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  A rough estimate of how many are still in for family or loved ones?

  by dgp in

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  2. beliefs

  i'm sure it's impossible to know for sure but, in people's opinions, what would be a rough estimate of how many people are still in because of fear of losing loved ones?.

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  I'm going back to the KH, going to do a replay of my youth, trying uberhard to put Jah's interest's first...so I can get into paradise...NOT...I'd rather die than be in paradise with BANE!
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  YOU TUBE My Jehovah's Witness Story: Raped By a Circuit Overseer

  by Lady Lee in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  interesting story.

  this fellow needs encouragement to go to the police.

  the co was later promoted to do .

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  When it happened to me by an elder, the reason I didn't take it to the elders right away was because I didn't understand what was being done to me was wrong. I was completely uneducated sexually. I felt like if an elder was doing this to me it must not be wrong. It's twisted, I know, but it's what I felt as a child.

  Additionally there is the fear factor, too. Like what if they don't believe me, or what if they think it's all my fault. There may be a lot of reasons why it took him so long to come forward.

  I sure hope he gets the help he needs.
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  The spanking room

  by dgp in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i just got "the spanking room: a child's eye view of the jehovah's witnesses", by william coburn.

  the author says that their old kingdom hall didn't have a spanking room, so the spanking took place in the ladies' room.

  there was always a line, either for ladies wanting to make use of the toilet the way it was intended to be used, or for ladies waiting their turn to spank their children.

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  I thought the book was excellent. William Coburn is around my age, I think.

  The KH I grew up in had a room where children could be spanked attached to the women's bathroom. It wasn't separate from the bathroom, though; and all the women standing in line could see the children being spanked. I remember one sister even carried a wooden spoon for the purpose in her diaper bag.

  When I was 2, my parents asked me why I go to meetings. I think they were expecting me to say 'because I love Jehovah' but my answer to them was, "to get a spanking."

  When my kids were little, the KHs we attended has sound-proofed "mothers" rooms with a speaker in them so you could hear the meeting. Some mothers used them as spanking rooms. I used them to nurse and change diapers, etc. It was a great place to escape.

  I'm so glad today that I didn't spank them at the kh much, although I am guilty of it, and that the six of them all followed me out of the org!
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  I would like to hear your experiences with being SHUNNED

  by jwfacts in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i am going to put together a page of short experiences of how shunning has affected exjws.

  you do not have to be disfellowshipped, even if you were shunned after being marked or after fading.

  all comments are welcome, such as who shunned you, how long since family have spoken to you, what your situation is, why you are being shunned and how it has made you feel.

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  I'm so happy to be free from this cult. A year ago my JW grandmother died at age 98. She wrote me out of her will because I df'd. My other 3 siblings don't have anything to do with jw, but were not df'd so they were not written out. I really don't care...she did not have much to give...and what she did my mom deserved for putting up with that biddy. When she wrote me out of her will, she also wrote off 6 of her grandbabies as well. She was evil in my eyes....not a loving JW!
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  Just talked to a brother in the service department and he hung up on me!

  by life is to short in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  ok so last sunday was my last meeting.

  i have been in contact with the service department over this problem with the child molesters in my hall, i have written many, many letters begging for help, i have gotten nothing for help from them, but to wait on jehovah and pray more study more, etc.

  so i want them to know that they they win they have weeded me out from the "truth" i am a bad seed from satan as i cannot abide by how we handle child molesters.

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  My last post was just a start...I was molested as a teen...both "brothers" (1 was an elder) were from North Vancouver.

  I reported all incidents to the elders. NEVER did they tell me what was dealt with or not. Lost my faith when I saw one I saw one of these ass**** walking around with his "attendant" label at the dc assembly, when I got df'd for doing much less. It was so wrong. There is no holy spririt...or he/she'd make sure things were made right....
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  Just talked to a brother in the service department and he hung up on me!

  by life is to short in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  ok so last sunday was my last meeting.

  i have been in contact with the service department over this problem with the child molesters in my hall, i have written many, many letters begging for help, i have gotten nothing for help from them, but to wait on jehovah and pray more study more, etc.

  so i want them to know that they they win they have weeded me out from the "truth" i am a bad seed from satan as i cannot abide by how we handle child molesters.

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  I'm not shocked at all. My ex-father-in-law had a baby with his one and only daughter - he had 9 kids. He was an elder when I married his 6th child...a son. His daughter was 2nd.
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  I'd like to know who you were before you were baptized a JW? Were you raised a JW? What religion or denomination of Christianity did you profess before you became a JW.

  by SAHARA in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  if you were raised a jw, how well did you research the history of the org.

  before you were baptized?

  if you were a convert to the watchtower society , how well did you know the doctrines of the faith before your conversion?

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  misguided

  Born in

  3rd generation

  Baptized at 16. Felt pressured into doing it. Didn't research the org myself beforehand, but always felt something wasn't quite right.

  DF'd in 2002

  Last memorial 2003 was my last ever meeting. I knew when I walked out the doors I would never go back

  Started researching and finally escaped the mind control

  Rose
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  Did You Screw Up Your Kids Because Of Being A Witness?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  are they ok now?.

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  I've managed to get 5 of my 6 kids out unscathed. My youngest is still being indoctrinated by his father, and I have a tough time trying to anti-witness to him. I only hope that he sees the real truth about `the truth` in the end.
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  Have your views on gays changed over the years?

  by laverite in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  some questions....feel free to answer any or all of these.

  have your views of gay people changed over the years?

  do you have or have you ever had gay friends?

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  misguided

  Back in the early 70s, in the small circle of jw friends my brother and I regularly got together with in the congregation, 8 of us - 5 girls and 3 boys, there was one boy who always wanted to play with the girls. He wanted to dress up in dresses. He wanted to play dolls. He wasn't into doing the "boy" things. He always joined in what the girls were playing. This was when he was about 5 years old.

  Later, in the late 80s, he left the jws and came out "gay." Many people were shocked. I wasn't. I knew it wasn't a choice he'd made, like so many said. I knew that was who he was.

  That's when my view on gays changed.