Witch Child,
Many other animal species are known to commit rape (the males of course). It is a reproductive strategy in many cases for males who cannot otherwise get a mate.
It is indeed a sexual act for humans as well; I can't imagine the reason people try to deny it.
Here is a good link to a balanced article about that:
http://is2.dal.ca/~bread/rape.html
I found out recently that, in the past, my girlfriend was sexually accosted by a 'friend'. In fact, they worked together and had many mutual good friends. Somehow he had duped her into believing that it was mutual...and she wasn't able to tell anyone about it for a long time.
I think that he showed no respect for her. Having met him (fortunately he survived the experience due to my ignorance of the situation), I think he is a coward and a prick. But I would make no argument against lopping his balls off...might do him some good.
I think the statistics, by the way, don't reflect accurately enough the disparity between women who know their sexual abuser and women who are sexually abused by strangers. I'd say that most cases go unreported...because it is someone they know and they feel guilty to tell.
cellmould