I like your family-you both think and reason for yourselves. I wish that you were both people in my circle of JW aquaintance-haven't been any adult escapees in years. You will have other, better opportunities. I hope that you can take advantage of a real opportunity, like WT perfidy or bad teachings, rather than an obnoxious congregation member. When you both leave, you don't want the final straw to have been "Brother Jerk didn't like my tie" or "Sister Gossip is so mean to those poor kids". Know what I mean? I wish you both well. Looks like you are on the way. It may be hard breaking it off, but there are lots of great suggestions for people with families-so that you can keep them and escape the Borg.
WELCOME to the board, glad to see you are waking up!