I stopped attending meetings when I was 18. I was pretty naive, so I was probably unaware if anyone did consider me a rival.
There was one "brother" who was one of those "in crowd" types. His twin brother was an elder and they were both rather wealthy.
Anyhow, some other elders' sons spent the night with this guy's son and apparently they found his porn stash. We were out in service on Saturday and they were all talking about it with me and a couple other guys.
Apparently, I was singled out when this was all overheard because this "brother" confronted me and threatened me if I spread any rumors like that around again (for the record, I was a listener, not a spreader) and that he had enough problems with his son without me causing more.
When I say "confronted", he grabbed the front of my shirt and pulled me into his face, gritting his teeth. I always wonder why no one else either noticed or didn't say anything about it...
He never denied having the porn, just didn't want anyone talking about it I guess.