(((((Craig)))))))
So sorry to hear this happened to you. Flyinghigh is right you did not loose your dignity, your wife lost hers.
lola
Posts by lola28
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28The story of my life (part 15- Betrayed)
by onacruse ini'd recaptured the "community," (or, perhaps, better said: the "community" had recaptured me).
my wife and i were invited to one party after another, old friends, and new friends.
indeed, there was a considerable degree of subliminal suspicion about me; after all, i'd been dfd, and who knew what i really thought?
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anyone ever wonder whether IT could be the TRUTH?
by Cordelia ini cant believe im posting this either!.
but ive got a huge decision to make wont go thru it all again its on my last thread, and i have decided that i am stopping going to the meetings completly (ive been dfed 7 months and because i didnt want to hurt my family even more i continued going to all the meetings and hid my boyfriend, wno was wonderful about it, put a letter of reinstatement in which they refused but relised by the way i paniked when i thought they might reinstate me that it is not what i want!).
i love my bf and want to be with him without any secrecy but i also want my family to accept him and still speak to me but i know that will not happen, so i have two choices either get reinstated and then leave (and risk losing mybf) or tell them now i dont want it and stop the meetings altogether before i go insane.. thing is to be free of the meetings and be with my bf, i will lose my family they are all so strong in the 'truth' they will not have any contact with me and my husband is divorcing me so ill lose finacially and my house and have to share time with my daughter, not to mention all my old friends who are wanting me back, and if i stop now all those months of trying to be reinstated will be wasted id be set right back,.
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lola28
Every day.
lola
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Why do the WT call ex-jw's "apostate"? Even if we still love Jehovah,Jesus?
by booker-t ini was wondering the other day when my neighbor(who is an jw elder) called me an "apostate" for refusing to return to jw's.
when i left the wt i never stopped loving jehovah and jesus i just could not stomach the wt society anymore.
there are alot of us ex-jw's who still love jehovah and jesus and still read our bibles.
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lola28
The momment you disagree wth the FDS you are considered an Apostate, even if you still believe in Jesus and Jehovah.
lola
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lola28
Yes. As Doctor Phil would say, "the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior". Personally I don't think I could ever have an abortion, I don't have it in me but I like knowing that I have the choice.
lola
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Am I over reacting?
by lola28 inmy sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home.
they also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago.
should i call the school and report it or should i call the police station?
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lola28
They take the shorter way home they have to cross a park and three long blocks to get home, it is a residential street and not many people are at home at 2:00 in the afternoon.
lola
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HALLOWEEN! What's cool or fun about celebrating?
by Now What? inthis is my first halloween as a free man .
so i looked up the word halloween and discovered some really cool things.
for instance, the word comes from "all hallows eve", because of being the night before the feast of martyrs (all saints day).
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lola28
The free candy?
lola
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Am I over reacting?
by lola28 inmy sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home.
they also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago.
should i call the school and report it or should i call the police station?
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lola28
Ahhh. Defd why go to meetings when I have you to give me my dose of daily Bible knowledge?
lola
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Am I over reacting?
by lola28 inmy sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home.
they also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago.
should i call the school and report it or should i call the police station?
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lola28
I would love to be able to walk them home from school but I can't and there is no one else to bring them home either, I gave them a cell phone and they are to leave school as soon as the bell rings so they can walk home when there are other people around.
lola
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Am I over reacting?
by lola28 inmy sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home.
they also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago.
should i call the school and report it or should i call the police station?
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lola28
They are 12, they said that both of these guys came out of an alley near an apartment building and began calling to them, the more they ignored them the more they presisted, they began to say some foul things to them and that is when they decided to run.
lola
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Am I over reacting?
by lola28 inmy sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home.
they also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago.
should i call the school and report it or should i call the police station?
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lola28
My sisters came home yesterday and said someone was following them home from school, they got very scared and ran the rest of the way home. They also told me that these two men had also followed one of their friends home a few days ago. Should I call the school and report it or should I call the police station? I don't want to scare them or make them paranoid but I also don't feel they are safe. Any suggestions?
lola