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  Are You A Guilty Type of Person?

  by minimus in

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  i was talking to an inactive jw and she said she was loaded with guilt and dread, thinking she might be destroyed at armageddon.

  i have no such feelings.

  how about you?

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  damselfly

  I feel bad that my family was hurt by me not being a JW any more. I do not feel guilt over it however.

  Dams
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  Do conflicts/arguments strengthen friendships/relationships ?

  by JH in

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  i think that conflicts do strengthen friendships or relationships.

  it sets boundary lines and defines what's acceptable from what's not acceptable.

  naturally it will strengthen the friendship or relationship as long as both respect the boundary line of the other one.. or, maybe conflicts mean that things aren't going right and the relationship/friendship isn't going good, and that the tolerance level has become very low, and arguments errupt for little nothings.... .

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  damselfly

  I think if the conflict is fought fairly then it can strengthen the relationship. Letting each other get what they need out and listening to what each other have to say is very important. An apology afterwards is a must as well

  Dams
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  Where is Markfromcali?

  by damselfly in

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  i'm watching family guy and wondering what happened to you?

  you haven't posted since july, i think.

  i miss you, you remind me of my friend, mark (from new minas) .

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  damselfly

  *Bump*
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  Whey protein shake

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  that is some nasty crap.

  i mixed the power with cold water.

  it tasted like puke.

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  damselfly

  They do taste awful don't they? Try mixing it with skim milk, or juice without added sugar. I also found that I had to chug mine without breathing in or I would gag.

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  My daughter starts college today!

  by Dimples in

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  i am so proud!

  my daughter is starting college.

  she will be attending a university an hour away from where we live.

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  damselfly

  That is great news! You must be very proud. I'm sure that she will do very well in her studies.

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  Trouble for Richie?

  by RichieRich in

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  so today, after the meeting, one of the elders from my jc walks up to me and my mother and asks if we had time to talk.

  thankfully, i had to get to work, and mom wasn't feeling great.

  we said today wasn't good.. so basiccally he said that he and another brother want to meet with us on wednsday night, after the tms, to "see how things are going".. so here's quandry:.

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  damselfly

  My elder meetings as a teen never included either of my parents. Perhaps it's not about you alone and is a 'check in' for your family?

  But what do I know anyway?

  Dams
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  I told the brothers......

  by defd in

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  at the meeting sunday that i visit this site.

  and man we had a long heated discussion.

  after about three hrs of going back and forth i just left and man, do i have some great news!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  damselfly

  He's cheating on The Org with us...

  I feel soooooo dirty.
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  I told the brothers......

  by defd in

  1. jw
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  at the meeting sunday that i visit this site.

  and man we had a long heated discussion.

  after about three hrs of going back and forth i just left and man, do i have some great news!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  damselfly

  So it's still a big secret that you visit us isn't it?

  Dams
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  40-Year-Old Virgin scores at box office

  by DannyHaszard in

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  40-year-old virgin scores at box office

  guardian unlimited, uk - 1 hour ago .

  the 40-year-old virgin made a conquest of american cinemagoers at the weekend, as the comedy about a middle-aged innocent's romantic fumblings topped the us ... .

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  damselfly

  I'm happy that you have someone to share your life with now Danny.

  Dams
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  I told the brothers......

  by defd in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  at the meeting sunday that i visit this site.

  and man we had a long heated discussion.

  after about three hrs of going back and forth i just left and man, do i have some great news!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  damselfly

  I'm all ears.