jwfacts:
It's interesting that you say your Mom has a controlling personality and that contributed to her joining, but in reality you give up so much control in your life!
For me, it was probably wanting to belong somewhere, and find better answers than what the Catholic church was dishing out (not dumping on them, it's just what I was raised as). I came from a big family (8 kids, i was 7th) and surely felt lost in the crowd. So the friendliness at the KH appealed to me, as did the appearance (then) that dubs had all the answers.
Karen