Hey
I came out to myself around 15 and then was forced into coming out to my parents at 16. Oy vey! I remember the elders meetings and all that other bull crap. It was a really shaky time. The one good benefit of coming from a broken some is that I was able to move in with my dad who is a non-practicing catholic.
It is hard to come to terms with when people that acted like your friends for so many years decide to hate you because of one little thing. Although the news may be rough for many of them, your true friends will shine through and will love you no matter who you are.
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.